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I'd been riding my bike for about half an hour. I glanced down to the big bulge showing in my groin – not from my cock being hard, but from what I had on underneath.

Before I set out from home this morning, I put on a thick metal cockring, and then a metal collar around my ballsack, which was securely bolted in place and kept the cockring on. The only thing I wore on top was a sexy one-piece tight shiny blue cycle suit. All the hardware in my groin showed a great bulge in my suit even when I wasn't hard, and I made sure I didn't take the key for the ball collar or any extra clothing out with me, so I couldn't cover up or remove the bulge while out.

But, knowing I had all this gear on under my Lycra and I'd have to keep it on view all day, I couldn't help to start to get hard, and seeing the bulge getting bigger made me even harder, until it started to look obscene. People I cycled past took a double-take, but I'd gone before they could work out what they
were seeing.

My cock was definitely getting in need of attention, and I knew a nearby pool by a river which was usually deserted – an ideal place to slip out of my gear (well, the stuff which was removable), take a swim, and then see about relieving some of my frustration.

I found the pool, got off my bike, and checked that there was no-one around. There wasn't, which was just as well since my cock was straining to break free of the Lycra and metal which imprisoned it. I lay down and started rubbing my cock through the Lycra, which felt great, but I knew I didn't want to come too soon, or to make a mess in the cycle suit since I'd have to cycle home in it.

I unzipped the suit and slipped it off my body, leaving me naked except for the metalwork around my cock and balls.
I dived into the pool – very cold, but very refreshing, and so liberating to be swimming naked.

I swam around for a while, letting my body get used to the water. I heard someone say 'Hi', which frightened the life out of me since I thought I was alone. I looked around, and saw that there was another guy on the other side of the pool.

Shit! I was swimming naked – he couldn't see that yet, but before long I'd have to get out of the water, and then he'd see not only what I wasn't wearing, but also what I was – the cockring and ball collar!

He swam over and started chatting to me about nothing in particular. Man, he was cute! Skinhead haircut, attractive features, and I occasionally got to see some of his body, which looked well built in all the right places. But he looked like he could handle himself okay, and if he saw I was naked, and I started to get hard, he might figure I fancied him, and could be homophobic and start causing trouble.

After a while, he climbed out of the pool. Wow! He was not only naked, but had such a cute arse, and his body was every bit as good as I'd thought. He lay down on the grass beside the pool, face up, sunbathing.

He called over for me to join him. I had a fit of bravery, and thought that as long as he had been skinny-dipping, he couldn't think it strange for me to do so. And as long as I didn't make it obvious that I thought he was gorgeous, I should be okay.
I pulled myself out of the pool and walked over to him. I heard a metallic clicking, and realised it was my cock and ball hardware clanking together. I tried to pull the ball stretcher off right then, but it was secured too tightly. It was too late to retreat, so I'd just have to hope that he wouldn't notice it.

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I lay beside him, pretending to close my eyes, but really squinting at his body. His cock was small from the effect of the cold water, but looked to have good potential. He looked over to wear my cycle suit lay, and said, "Hey, can I try that on?"

I said "Sure," and he went over and started to pull it up over his body. The Lycra stretched tightly over his body – a bigger build than mine – and didn't hide any detail of his form.

He asked, "How do I look?" Well, he looked incredible, but I couldn't answer that! However, other parts of my body were answering for me – I was getting hard, and the metalwear was only making me harder. I could hardly now pretend I
was straight!

He just grinned, and lay back down next to me. He started to speak, and I was terrified he was going to say something abusive about me getting an erection, but instead he said, "Who's Darren?"

Darren? I went out with a guy called Darren a few years ago, but surely this guy hadn't met him. I must have looked confused, trying to work out what he was talking about.

He said, "Is it just the ball weight, or the whole cock & balls he owns?" Then I realised, my ball collar had "Property of Darren" engraved on it. He continued, "So would Darren mind me playing with his property?"

Ooo! I just grinned and said, "No, go ahead!"

He put a hand down to cup my tight balls, and with his other hand he started stroking my hard cock, making some comment about the metal gear not coming off any time soon.
I reached over to touch his now hard Lycra clad cock, but he said, "No, don't, it's part of the Pool Club rules."

I was hardly listening, ecstatic at being able to just lie
back while this hunk fondled me, but I asked, "What club,
what rules?"

While tugging and stroking me, he told me, "I was jogging past here about and hour ago, and found a guy swimming naked." As he talked to me, my imagination saw his body in just a pair of tight little jogging shorts. "The guy said he recognised me, and he was gay too. He got me to take my shorts off." I was now seeing these two guys naked together (in my mind the other one was gorgeous too).

"He told me that he was in the Pool Club, and I could be too if I followed the rules. He had no clothes, but if I would let him have my clothes, he would make me come." Ooo that tickled my fantasy about being stranded somewhere naked, I got so turned on at the idea. "I would then be in the club, and had to stay by the pool naked, and not cum again until someone else came along to join the club." I didn't really know what he was talking about, but it sounded very sexy. "I agreed, and after he put my clothes on he gave me a great orgasm and then left." I just groaned, still thinking about him being stranded there naked.

"So, how about it, do you want to be the next member?" What – was he saying he'd do me the honour of leaving me without any clothes and he'd let me come at his hand?

I shouted, "Oh yes, yes!" and as I did I felt the rush of cum shooting through my cock and all over my chest. And with the rush, relief, and exhaustion, I fell asleep.

I woke up some time later, and looked around to find he'd left, as had my cycle suit. My bike was still there, but wasn't much use with me naked, and I'd deliberately not packed any other clothes. I really was stranded naked, with no option but to wait until someone would come along whose clothes I could exchange for sexual favours.

And already in the distance I could hear the ring of a
bike bell...

I knew a cunning man who could Shape like a horse. He would travel around the sex clubs, selling his gift to the pony people, turning them into horses and stallions and mares.

I knew another cunning man who could Shape like a dog. He would travel around the clubs too, selling his gift at the dog trials, turning them into pups and bitches.

Then one day, there came a man who was very cunning indeed.

Jehan ignored the police presence outside the club: the owners had assured everyone that the club was Shielded and Jehan knew that certain people were planning to play with the surveillance team’s equipment anyway.

The man who was very cunning indeed went to the pony people. He liked to watch them strain at the bit. He watched for so long that some of the pony people came over and asked him if he wanted to be ridden.

They said that there was a Shaper with them.

Jehan had seen the Shaper used illusions and said
"No thanks."

The man who was cunning indeed went to the dog trials. He liked to see all the dogs under careful control, trying to please their owners. He watched for so long that the Shaper came across and asked if he wanted to be leashed.

Jehan said "No thanks."

This Shaper used illusion too.

He thought the man who was very cunning indeed was nervous.

The man who was very cunning indeed saw this. He asked the Shaper to practise his art.

Jehan let the dog illusion grow around him, then shape-shifted his claws and cut through the ghost flesh and fur from the inside.

"Now do you see why I said no?" He peeled away the hide, let it fall around his feet, then stepped out of it. "Illusions never feel right. This body is mine." He put points on his ears and grew sharp feline teeth.

The Shaper apologised.

Jehan just grinned: he had decided to keep that shape for a while.

The man who was very cunning indeed went to the pony people. It wasn’t only horses that wanted to be ridden.

 

Resources

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SM Bisexuals is a UK-based group targeted at, but not exclusively for, bisexuals into all aspects of BDSM, and
their friends.

We have monthly meetings in London, on the second Sunday of every month at 8pm, upstairs at Central Station for discussions and workshops on SM related subjects. Central Station is a friendly gay pub near Kings Cross station in London – address on the front cover.

Workshops we have run in the past include Temporary Bodyart, Play Piercing, Animal Roleplay, Enemas, Transformations, Suspension, Sex Toys Show & Tell, Paganism, SM Quiz, Transgenderism, SM & Music, Infantilism, Breath Control, and Bondage. Most events are free to attend, but a donation towards costs is appreciated.

We run The Chain Letter – the idea of this is that you send us a page of information about whatever’s on your mind (stories, questions, answers, pictures, photos) and then we send a copy of your page and everyone else’s page on to all people who’ve sent a page in. Then the following month you can send in another page, which can be responding to what others have written.

Send us an A4 page (about 20 copies if you can) by the start of the month, and include an A4 SAE with a 49p (first class) or 38p (second class) stamp.

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We are always looking for articles, stories, letters, pictures, etc for Ungagged and also ideas for workshops for our monthly meetings (and preferably people to run them too). Please let us know if you have anything we can publish or any suggestions for workshop subjects, or you have a subject you’d like to run a workshop on.

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SMBi Workshops 9th May Pervy Family Fortunes – You've seen the show on telly, now play the unrestricted version live 13th June Pornography Show & Tell – What turns you on? What turns you off? Bring your own favourite visual aid 11th July Queering The Vampire – Vampirism, Sadomasochism & Queerness. Yes, it's all related 8th August To be arranged 12th September Labels and Labelling – The ways we describe our sexual practices and identities. Short talk and discussion

 

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Events

Need to know what’s happening? These details are supplied by Informed Consent who maintain a list of UK BDSM and fetish events on their website

This isn’t an exhaustive list of events – there are plenty of things which go on which aren’t in the list, and an event may be repeated monthly even if it only appears here once. We can’t vouch for any of these details, so please check with organisers before going to an event. These are specifically BDSM and fetish events – you should see BCN (see Resources section) for listings of bi events.

Wed 21 April 9pm – 2am Mistress Chrissie's

Sat 8 May 11am - 5pm Fantasy SM Market

Sat 5 June The Bridge See above

Sat 5 June Spank See above

Sat 19 June Manchester Pub Munch See above

Sat 19 June Club Lash See above

Sun 4 July London Fetish Fair See above

Fri 29 – Sun 31 October Funlove Leeds

To see an up-to-date list of what’s happening, take a look at Informed Consent’s website at http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/

If you have any updates to this list, then please don’t contact SM Bisexuals, but e-mail Informed Consent on webmaster@informedconsent.co.uk or write to them at: Informed Consent, P.O. Box 152, Manchester, M20 2YZ. If you can, you should check the website to ensure they don’t already have the update.

The UK National Bisexual Conference has been running since 1984, and provides a unique three day opportunity for bisexuals and their friends to get together, talk, play and party. Now the last BiCon of the millennium will be in Edinburgh, from 16th – 18th July 1999, and we plan to make it the best ever.

Session topics range from personal development to activism to just plain fun, and as well as discussions there'll be a bar, stalls, videos, an art exhibition (see our ad in this issue), and outings.

This is the fifth BiCon to be held in Edinburgh, and should be the largest – we've outgrown all our previous venues! There'll be accommodation for those who need to travel, or you can just attend for one day if you prefer. BiCon has always welcomed newcomers, and as in previous years we will be holding special events for anyone new to bisexuality or who hasn't been to a BiCon before.

SM Bisexuals have been well represented at the last few BiCons, and we expect the same this year. There should be several sessions with an SM theme, though we haven't finalised them all, so feel free to volunteer!

And of course there'll be a party each day so we can carry on into the night. Dressing up has become something of a tradition at BiCon parties, and anything goes from Ball gowns to your best pervy finery (as long as it's minimally decent). After last year, though, it's unlikely that anyone will be able to top a certain editor of this publication for causing heads to turn, but you're welcome to try...

Registration is cheaper before May 1st, so hurry and send off the booking form in this mail out. And remember we have
a hardship fund for anyone who might be unable to afford
it otherwise.

You can contact BiCon at BiCon 99, BM BiCon, London WC1N 3XX (please include an SAE), or e-mail bicon99@bi.org. BiCon's Web pages are at http://bi.org/~bicon/

Bi Community News (BCN) is the monthly newsletter for all UK bisexuals and those interested in bisexuality. BCN was set up to keep us in touch, to build more of a network between community groups and to support isolated individuals. Whether you live in the heart of a bisexual world or are just interested in news that the mainstream press, both straight and gay, ignores or misrepresents, we want to the be your newsletter.

Some fascinating discussions start when groups of bi's and friends get together. Some of them are of interest to a larger audience. We make space for an ongoing lively and thoughtful debate through articles and our letters page.

We provide a listing of local, national and special interest bisexual groups. We carry reviews of interest to bi's, whether books, films, videos, television, events or anything else. Personal ads are free for two issues. A collective produces BCN and we very much want to be a community resource. Please help us by keeping us informed and sharing your views.

We are supported almost entirely by our subscribers. You can get 12 issues for £8.50, £6.00 if you are unwaged. Some people care to support us more financially and become supporters at £15.00 or Super supporters at £25.00. Donations are always welcome! For organisations that want to keep in touch with bisexual issues, we have a rate of £25.00.

If you would like an advert to be seen by bisexual community, do contact us. New to all of this? We produce a beginner’s guide to bisexuality in the UK. Send us a large SAE and we will send you one. Please read, contribute and enjoy BCN.

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Dear Ungagged,

Ref: Derek Hare’s article, issue 9

Much as I appreciate the skill of the writing, the marshalling of facts, and the zeal of the writer, I was amused by the brackets in the last paragraph, referring to the 1992 first Countdown on Spanner meeting:

Maybe we should come to eliminate the word ‘straight’ and its implied sense of ‘normal’.

Whadjewthink?

Dear Ungagged,

I read Derek Hare’s article (issue 9) and I have mixed feelings about it: I thought parts of it were very good and other parts not so good. I read his comments on a workshop I facilitated (in 1991) and of course Derek is perfectly entitled to his opinion and the right to express it. I notice he will gladly receive remarks, criticisms and correction of mistakes, so I would like to say the following in reply:

I have facilitated a number of workshops on SM at BiCon, the first of which was in 1991. The feedback from my workshops has always been positive up to now. People
have come up to me afterwards at BiCon and congratulated me; sometimes people have even applauded at the end. In fact, I can even say that this is the first time anyone has complained about one of my SM workshops.

I have seen Derek on a number of occasions over the 8 years since the workshop (and spoken on the phone) and I can’t remember his ever mentioning the workshop. I wish he had expressed his concerns to me first, rather than doing so in an Ungagged article.

The workshop was a long time ago, and I can’t remember everything about it perfectly, but I do remember saying people should stay in touch with their feelings, be aware of their needs, and share only what they felt right sharing. I said people should respect other people’s feelings and avoid confrontation. I dealt with a number of aspects of SM, including CP, bondage, boot-stuff, different types of scene, etc, which Derek does not mention in his article.

I explained that we are not Neo-Nazis or any other kind of Fascist. I explained that we do not do or advocate what the Marquis de Sade did and advocated. These were two accusations that were sometimes levelled at us SM people in the late 80’s and early 90’s.

When asked about the endorphin rush, I did not in fact say there was no such thing: I said I had read about it in a book but I personally had not experienced it.

I also told people I felt nervous – I always did when facilitating workshops; that’s why I don’t do it any more. I am sorry if I have an unsatisfied customer, but if people think they can do better, they are of course welcome to volunteer to facilitate a workshop themselves.

I am responsible only for myself, so I have replied to the comments on my workshop only. I think Derek wrote some other things in his article which are very interesting and helpful: for example, I attended the SM workshop at BiCon in 1988 and I agree with his comments on it. (It was the first SM space I had been to and it left me feeling very unhappy and confused about the whole thing!)

As Derek invited people to comment at the end of his article, I am sure he won’t mind me putting my side of things.

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Be Careful Out There!

If you’re meeting up with someone for the first time, make sure you give their details to a friend and tell them when you’ll be back. Tell the person you’re meeting that you have done this. If you’re going home with someone you’ve just met, then try to do the same – ring a friend and tell them where you are or carry an envelope with you and send the person’s details to a friend (or to yourself). For the first meeting, try to make it in a public place, and meet before you agree to go off somewhere to play.

Remember, you can never be too safe – any person worth playing with will respect you for being careful, not be insulted by it. And have fun! J

(To the tune of "Killing Me Softly (With His Song)")

They said the club was crowded, I should just go to dance,
They said a newbie sub wasn't in there with a chance,
And there he was, this young man, the Master of my dreams,

Bringing me joy with his tortures,
Freeing my soul with his bonds,
Loving me gently with his lash,
Loving me gently with his lash,
Freeing my spirit with his bonds,
Loving me gently, with his lash.

I left my fear behind me, I didn't see the crowd,
I felt like all my needs could be spoken right out loud,
I prayed he wouldn't finish, and he just kept right on,

Bringing me joy...

He played as if he owned me, as if he had the right,
And then he took his collar and locked it on me tight,
I knew it was forever, that he would always be,

Bringing me joy...

She stared at her mobile phone, willing it to ring, but it refused.

"Damn it! She promised she would call! What am I going to do now – this is going to be so embarrassing!"

She heard a nurse call out her name, took a deep breath, and went into the examination room.

The gynaecologist asked her to lie on the couch and put her feet into the stirrups, but she hesitated. Crimson with embarrassment, she tried to explain, "I’m afraid there’s a… problem… I don’t think… you won’t be able to…"

The gynaecologist stared at her over the top rim of her glasses. "What are you trying to say?"

No choice but the truth: "Well, I have some body piercings…down there, and recently a friend was…having a look at them, and them my friend, well, added something…" She lifted her skirt and pushed down her knickers to reveal a small, shiny combination lock sitting neatly through the piercings in each of her labia lips. "My friend promised to call with the combination before I got in here!"

The gynaecologist grinned. "Ah yes, your girlfriend did call to tell me she was keeping you locked up. She gave me the combination to your lock – but she did make me promise to lock you up afterwards!"